Though honestly the post is missing so very very much still. The worry that if I lived as a guy I'd have to follow Rules like how to walk and dress and talk, the complicated feelings around my attachment to the struggle of women (it turns out, you can be a man and an ally and someone with relevant experiences all at once), the way my attractions suddenly felt intrusive and something to be guilty over (it turns out, experiencing attraction as a man is not, actually, inherently predatory), and more.